We share oceans in this family.

A mother and daughter hold hands in the shallow waters of Waikiki Beach

A sunny day in Waikiki. Spread out the towels and alternated between swimming and snacking on goldfish crackers. The girl continues to adore the ocean, though she has become (understatedly) territorial: became very upset, after we had already been swimming for a few hours.

"No Daddy, this is my ocean. You cannot come in!"

But I did not respect her wishes, I went in anyway, and she followed me out, until she was clinging to me with one hand and trying to hit me with the other, chirping angrily the whole time.